You cannot fully appreciate how bad it is

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You cannot fully appreciate how bad it is

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For all of us here under 30

We should be eyefucking the women we're attracted to 24/7, getting random rock hard erections constantly throughout the day and night that last 30 minutes+, getting instant rock hard erections when an attractive woman hugs us/kisses us/bends over/laughs the right way, constantly fantasising about women we're attracted to, etc etc.

I generalised it to straight male PoV but you get the picture, just modify it so it fits with your sex and sexuality.

And here I am getting excited when I can feel a drop of blood going into my dick once a day. And I have a horrible suspicion that the people who claim to have been 'cured' actually mean that they can now get a workable semi for 5 minutes a week with a cock ring or some bullshit like that.

It's so hopeless. Also, if you get PSSD young enough (like me at 17) it probably interferes with puberty as well, so if a general cure is found it might not even work.

Seriously, life ruined before it even began.

EDIT: I didn't want to make a new bitching thread, but something's gotten me down the last few days. I used to have pretty bad phimosis, and the last couple of years it's gotten way better, and I used to think it was just natural but actually, it's because of soft glans syndrome and penile shrinkage.
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Tried inositol (slight improvements) cialis (very limited improvements) yohimbine (slight improvements) maca root (no effect) bacopa monieri (no effect) estradiol-17b (pronounced improvement in all areas of sexuality)
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Re: You cannot fully appreciate how bad it is

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Yeah, we all understand how bad it is, regardless of age and gender
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Kk88 wrote:Yeah, we all understand how bad it is, regardless of age and gender
But we don't, I include myself in that

Maybe if you fully internalise it straight away, I didn't though, I just sealed it off in my mind for a year or so and I can't even remember pre-pssd sexuality now. So I know on a practical level what it was like but I cannot grasp how huge what I'm missing is.
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Tried inositol (slight improvements) cialis (very limited improvements) yohimbine (slight improvements) maca root (no effect) bacopa monieri (no effect) estradiol-17b (pronounced improvement in all areas of sexuality)
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Re: You cannot fully appreciate how bad it is

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Well, speaking for myself - I do understand. And yes it's bloody hard but I've learnt to try and put it in perspective, and have to try and remain positive.

With all respect this is the 3rd post I've seen that you've made like this, and although I appreciate you're struggling it's making it hard for others who are trying to remain positive.

Count yourself lucky you're young. If a cure is found in the next 5 or 10 years you'll still have a chance to live your life and enjoy sex. The older ones of us won't.

If you lost your legs in an accident would you sit around and cry about it or get on with your life? We have to go on with what we've got
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Kk88 wrote:Well, speaking for myself - I do understand. And yes it's bloody hard but I've learnt to try and put it in perspective, and have to try and remain positive.

With all respect this is the 3rd post I've seen that you've made like this, and although I appreciate you're struggling it's making it hard for others who are trying to remain positive.

Count yourself lucky you're young. If a cure is found in the next 5 or 10 years you'll still have a chance to live your life and enjoy sex. The older ones of us won't.

If you lost your legs in an accident would you sit around and cry about it or get on with your life? We have to go on with what we've got
If I lost my legs in a car accident my treatment and quality of life options would be aided by the plethora of information about car accidents and amputation that's been meticulously gathered through millions of hours of work. What if I had a car accident caused by an unknown problem with the engine and I went to A&E and they shrugged their shoulders and told me there's nothing they can do, and said it probably wasn't even the accident and something else caused the leg injuries? And the salesman knew about the fault in the engine too (or should, because the manufacturer told him about it) and neither he nor the manufacturers faced any kind of consequences, and I was just left on the roadside to die?

And no I don't consider myself lucky I'm young, because I haven't had a chance to have sex yet. So if they find a cure in 20 years when I'm in my forties, I'm supposed to be grateful and enjoy the whirlwind sex and love life that middle-age is famed for?

Remaining positive is meaningless. There is nothing positive about all of this. Even if a 100% cure is found, all it means is we're back to where we should be, after 1, 5, 10, 20 years of torture.
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Tried inositol (slight improvements) cialis (very limited improvements) yohimbine (slight improvements) maca root (no effect) bacopa monieri (no effect) estradiol-17b (pronounced improvement in all areas of sexuality)
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Re: You cannot fully appreciate how bad it is

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Not exactly im 34 and my pssd is realy bad i coud give 1 houer fuck withoud any problem without any pill ...unfortunatelly without pleasure too... With woman it s not the same... Save 200€...go far away from town...go to
Red house... Tel her that you are impotent and you want just play with her body for 1 houer... Take 25 mg viagra and you ll see that your dick will work...
Sorry for my bad (terrible) English.
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Lost soul, are you unable to have sex at all? maybe try some viagra or something and see if it works
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Lost_soul. You do seem to have a good sense of sarcasm. I will give you that. :)
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If I lost my legs in a car accident my treatment and quality of life options would be aided by the plethora of information about car accidents and amputation that's been meticulously gathered through millions of hours of work. What if I had a car accident caused by an unknown problem with the engine and I went to A&E and they shrugged their shoulders and told me there's nothing they can do, and said it probably wasn't even the accident and something else caused the leg injuries? And the salesman knew about the fault in the engine too (or should, because the manufacturer told him about it) and neither he nor the manufacturers faced any kind of consequences, and I was just left on the roadside to die?


:]] write it on Rxisk please that ' s really good point of view and shows how that system works
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Re: You cannot fully appreciate how bad it is

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If it makes you feel any better, I wasn't a libido freak before my fuck up with meds. I had periods where I didn't really care for chicks and other periods where I had higher libido, I get the same thing now but I would never say for myself I was chasing chicks right and there (probably had endocrine issues even before the pssd but that was unreleated to ssri's as I had never taken then back then)

My dick had already lost some sensation by 17 (before this all happened) but 1 week of abstaining generally fixed this. Actually scratch that, it wasn't lowered sensation as in PSSD numbing, it was lowered desire from overmasturbation. I think my low libido problem must also have been caused by overmasturbtion back then, abstaining from masturbation makes me think about women 24/7 even now but I can't do it for too long because my prostate starts to ache (Another pssd fuck up, never had prostate problems before).

Additionally, if it makes you feel even better, 3 years from the incident, I am much better, I get spontaneous erections every now and then if the right woman does it and I'm in the mood, yes, I can get erect and feel much horny. It's just that my penis sensation isn't as high anymore but this has improved too from day 1 of pssd. I hope these give you hope, at least for me, I can tell you I wasn't a high libido machine before the meds either.
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